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Courage Isn’t Enough

My dad often chastised me with potent words and phrases so weighty that I had to research their meaning. An example is a quote from William Shakespeare’s Henry IV, where the character Falstaff declares, “The better part of valour is discretion.” He would hammer those words into my consciousness whenever I displayed a passionate but narrow focus on accomplishing something, often at the expense of other important matters.

Dad thought of my teenage passions as unguided fervour, lacking the balancing virtue of wisdom. I disagreed most of the time, but now I have come to deeply appreciate what he meant. Looking back, I recognize the many near-tragedies that would have befallen me had it not been for the power of circumspection. Yes, valour (courage and bravery) has opened many doors for me, leading to numerous victories. But the better side of the story is that discretion taught me which battles to fight and how to win them.

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YOUR COMING CRISIS

There is a coming crisis. Whether you are an individual, family, institution, or community. It is already taking shape, but you are ignoring it right now because the solution looks insignificant.

History and experience show us that the disasters we face, whether in our personal lives, families, businesses, faith, or society, rarely emerge suddenly. They are often the result of small, ignored actions that seemed too trivial to matter.

I recently tried to rewatch James Cameron’s Titanic and understood a few more details I never considered. Before its infamous collision with an iceberg in April of 1912, there were several warning signs. The ship’s crew received multiple iceberg alerts from other vessels, yet these warnings were either dismissed or not properly relayed. Even a tool as small as binoculars was not given to the lookout, who eventually shouted, “Iceberg!”.

The ship was also designed with fewer lifeboats than needed, a seemingly small decision justified by aesthetics, overconfidence, and merely obeying the legal requirements. Had these “insignificant” details been handled differently, the scale of the disaster might have been mitigated.

This pattern repeats itself in companies that ignore simple information “insignificant employees” may have or dismiss shifting market trends, in individuals who neglect their health until it becomes a crisis, or in leaders who avoid uncomfortable but necessary conversations until trust is broken beyond repair.

What is that “small” action you’re putting off? A five-minute call to check in with a key client? A difficult but necessary conversation with a loved one? A decision to upskill before your job becomes obsolete?

The future is shaped by the small decisions we make today. We shouldn’t wait for a crisis to prove what should have been obvious. The insignificant action we take now could be the lifeline that saves us later. Our crisis prevention should start today.

Question: What small but important action are you delaying to take right now?

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RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS

Let me share something I’m embarking on more consciously this weekend. It’s not that I do not practice this often, but some how we are rarely deliberate about our acts of kindness and usually just respond involuntarily to others in a kind way. But I have since discovered that when you are purposeful with you act of kindness, it tends to prompt a repeat performance. Interestingly, a repeat performance on two fronts. First is that you the initiator feels a sense of satisfaction deep down and you begin seeking for other opportunities to reenact the circumstances in which you display kindness. Second, the receiver is more aware of the act of kindness in his favour and most likely will be full of gratitude and memory that an opportunity will also be sought to prove the capacity for kindness as well. I have seen this dynamic work over and over that it is beyond a theoretical assumption. Kindness will always beget kindness. So this weekend I am deliberately going to nourish my soul with random acts of kindness, especially to strangers I have never met before. If you believe in the concept of six degrees of separation, I could convince you then that it will take probably six cycles for an act of kindness to find its way back to you :D. You don’t believe me? Try it for yourself.
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