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		<title>SKIMPOLO: SOME THOUGHTS ON SKIMPY DRESSING</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 09:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometime in 2002, I attended a very good friends wedding. I was very excited about this event because a lot of old friends were going to be attending and it would be some sort of a great reunion of friends and foes alike. Friends to refresh our goings and catch up with old gist, while [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=164&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>WOMEN: RULES OF ENGAGEMENT &#8211; Part 2</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/06/08/women-rules-of-engagement-part-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 07:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The next rule of engagement I would introduce here is something very new. This was inspired in my heart by critical observation of the goings of young men, especially as they battle for relevance in demanding society. It is called the Law of Equation. In mathematics we say an equation is a statement that two [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=160&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>WOMEN: RULES OF ENGAGEMENT &#8211; Part 1</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/06/05/women-rules-of-engagement/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 08:38:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We men put up way too much show and think that the positive responses we get from the opposite sex is dependent on how much theatrics we can stage. Unfortunately most genuine women can read through the ugly story and see through the dark shades, and all we end up looking like is acting through a series of Johnny Bravo. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=156&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>FINDING YOUR GOOD MAN &#8211; Part 2</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/06/03/finding-your-good-man-part-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 07:51:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are certain plants that you could plant anywhere and they will grow. Take the cactus plant and put it in an arid and harsh region, it will grow. Put it in fertile soil it will grow. That&#8217;s how it is made. But there are other plants that will simply not grow except they are [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=153&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>FINDING YOUR GOOD MAN &#8211; Part 1</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/06/03/finding-your-good-man-part-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 07:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A while ago I was burdened by an issue and was hard pressed to write on it. I titled that article &#8220;Where are the good men?&#8221; because there seems to be a silent question in many hearts these days on why there&#8217;s a sudden disappearance of good men. Whether there&#8217;s a disappearance or a drastic [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=150&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>THIS BABY IS TEN YEARS OLD!</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/06/01/this-baby-is-ten-years-old/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 07:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you noticed these days that there is a somewhat increasing intelligence in children, and their rate of apprehension seems to be ever expanding in a very complex and diversifying world? True. I have suddenly developed an interest in the developmental stages of children and wonder how their plain and simple minds comprehend and retain [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=147&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>WHERE ARE THE GOOD MEN?</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/04/06/where-are-the-good-men/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 06:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calabarboy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I do not feel compelled to write anything about this subject, I only sense an urgency. I also do not believe that anyone has a complete answer to the stated question, but we all know in part and till the day we breathe our last, we will always know in part. All we do is [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=143&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>THE ‘DEMIGODIFICATION’ OF PUBLIC SERVICE</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 13:21:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I promise this wont be long. Let me start by explaining what public service means. From there you can extrapolate what it is not, as these days I spend little time dealing with negatives. Public service is a service that is performed for the benefit of the public or its institutions. And a public servant [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=140&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>IS THERE HOPE FOR THE REST OF US?</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/02/24/is-there-hope-for-the-rest-of-us/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 06:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[  You may wonder who the rest of us are and who in particular I am referring to. Well, I am one of those who stubbornly refuse to append derogatory terms such as Third World, Underdeveloped Countries, Developing Countries, or Poor Nations, on those countries that do not fall into the exclusive club of ‘Big [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=135&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>ON THE TED HAGGARD ISSUE: A FEW THINGS TO THINK ABOUT.</title>
		<link>http://calabarboy.com/2009/01/30/on-the-ted-haggard-issue-a-few-things-to-think-about/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 03:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[  I haven&#8217;t met Ted, but I have heard him speak live back at my school in Nigeria and like many others I had great respect for the man who led many Christians in their profession of faith. He sounded simple, without the high sounding rhetoric that accompanies pentecostal messages, and made himself very clear [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=calabarboy.com&amp;blog=3830656&amp;post=128&amp;subd=holyreg&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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