My name is Reginald Efiom Bassey. I am from the South Eastern part of Nigeria, from a place called Cross River State, where God lives…ha ha ha! (ok…just a joke, but true anyways…lol). I am Efik by ethnic identity and speak the Efik language (google it and stop wondering!). Back home in Calabar, I am called Etete, which means ‘Grand Father’ (literally – Fathers’ Father). However my uncle warned me to stop answering to that name before the negative spiritual forces of Calabar attach themselves to me…lol. But up in Lagos, some of my friends call me ‘Papa Reg’; wherever they got that from – maybe because I have little rotund mid-section caused by always sleeping after a hot bowl of noodles and not youthful indulgence as some claim. However, I am usually called Reggie.
I live in New Jersey with my Angel (without wings…lol). I agreed to follow her there so that she will agree to follow me wherever later. Don’t tell her I said that please!… Else it may sound like blackmail. But she’s the better side of me and yes I have someone to brag about 
I have a background in International Relations, and currently trying to get a Masters in Public Affairs, Policy Analysis, and Administration somewhere in the city of New York. I still have a PhD to contend with, at least for prestige sake. It’s nice to be called a Doctor you know. I am tired of school already and all the deadlines you always have to meet, and I really do think school sucks; or maybe just the way it is carried out. I also think that I have been more educated out of school than in school. In all, getting the required mental tools to equip me for my journey ahead is paramount.
I am a product of two great towns in Nigeria: Calabar and Lagos. So, one encounter with me will provide you with the two extreme characterization of the Nigerian life. On one extreme, I am calm and assertive and like good things, while enjoying every bit of the opportunities life presents me. On the other end, I am a hustler and can be annoyingly over confident. I can thrive in chaos and function creatively under the most adverse circumstances. Have your take on which each city represents.
Something wakes me up every morning and gives me a reason for continuous living not existing. I have an undying passion to add value to people where ever I meet them. I am totally awed at the variety in human existence and love to explore new identities and lines of thought. Passing on the virus of my passion to help people is what I live for everyday. In this light, I am on a mission to contribute one building block to remodel my country, continent, and the world. Perhaps, if I am faithful to this one thing, I may then contribute several blocks.
Finally, I am a seriously excited person. The reason is I am in live contact with my maker and I’m very crazy about Him. For this also I am too sure of where I am heading because I hear Him and He instructs me. He corrects, chastises, and encourages me all the way. I wonder when people claim He doesn’t exist. All they need is an experience with Him. So He defines my life and gives meaning to my journey on the earth.
So I invite you to come into my little domain and read some of the stuff I write about. If you like what you read, leave a comment to expand the discourse. If you don’t display your displeasure as well, or best, slap me when next you see me. In all, work with me and let’s make this world a better place.
Cheers All!
I love this mentor, its highly creative. Keep the fire burning, while we learn from you.
Meet u soonest along the corridors of power and the seat of influence.
Thanks Edmund…looking forward to seeing you there as well. Cheers
Obong owo, ata Abasi emi odiong fi ye eti nfre ete!!! Ku yak owo ndomo tiet eting mkpo efen ono fi, I am always encouraged when I speak with you because for a fella of a young age, you speak so eloquently and with wisdom that comes from God almighty. You had better keep on truckin’ or answer to me but worse yet, answer to God because He has purposed your life for so much, He had provided the tools and thank Him that you know that already and are well on your way. Abasi oyo diong fi ye ekung ubok fo ke nsisi ye ke nsisi! I am loving the discussions, I MUST take the time to read your article on men and sex, relationships etc. You have the makings of a great book there, my brother and friend…I can’t wait to show up at the signing! LOL
Thanks Ebbe my sister for the wonderful encouragement. You know we are trying to become like you as the days go by. God bless!!!
I enjoyed reading your introduction. I do not think that you are over confident, you are just confident and we need people like that. Always enjoy having some advice from you!!
Yay!!! Jessica came around…lol
Hello world this is my best classmate
Regy,
I am motivated every time i have access to your intellectual resource. I have always admired your personality and am greatly excited to know that you are soaring in the direction of God’s call upon your life.
Kudos my brother and people like you give me further hope that change must come to Africa. Together with others of like purpose, we will influence our world and bring about the desired change.
Shalom
Ride on Mr. Ogah, I am with you on this one. Thanks for the encouragement and see you on the fulfilling side. Peace
Men bro, am really glad to have you as a big bro. stay blessed sir
Calabar Boy for real…. I had always expected it would come to this; moving from a secondary domain (holyreg.wordpress.com) to your personal domain, this is a great move – Congrats. As a blogger I’m yet to recover from the excitement too, Enjoy writing as you inspire the world.
Thanks Isaiah and Mitch, and thanks for the encouragement. Love you all.
Pride!Pride!! Pride!!! I’m swelling up with pride. I am a lover of words, so you can imagine how I feel whenever I read a piece artfully crafted together. Like I will always quote: the pen is mightier than the sword. Reginald, you have a weapon in your hands, the choice of usage is up to you, but I trust you’d use it wisely.
Long live the Calabarboy!
Umoh my sister, God bless ya loads…please keep coming around. I need you counsel as well.
Hi reggie, i love these write ups, they are very helpful. it gives me hope that there’s someone i can confide in. is there a way i can ask for ur opinion on something personal without it being published? maybe ur e-mail address?would be glad if you can be of help. awaiting ur reply, thanks
Thanks a lot Afor, you can reach me directly on reggie@calabarboy.com
i didnt know what to expect until i started reading… i am so proud of all your good works. after you mentioned the source of your strength, i couldnt help but admit that perfection truely comes from Him alone.
i must confess that every line was worth it!!
Thanks Joyce, expecting you to read more stuff out here. God bless!
Hi reggie,ama nam eti eti.Ke nam oh!Yak ubong abasi atim fie anim ke eyin obong nsisi.Yak edidiong abasi atim fie akama,let d good work dt he has started with u touch d lives of many dt will get 2 read ur motivational write ups and more grease 2 ur elbow.I remember those days in Anka,infact as our lodge leader u impacted so much in us.U re highly blessed.
Thank you so much Mary, you are always remembered for good in my heart, and was highly honoured to have associated with you. God bless
Nice Site regie
Thanks Sis…how you dey?
I like what you are doing, mr Regie. It is good to know that some people take it upon themselves to provide a platform for people to share ideas and for intelligibly thirsty people to drink from. Keep up the good work, but i must add that the challenges you face are enormous as the level of ignorance and despair in our society is disturbing. I’ll like to join your platform.
You are highly welcome sir and God bless
Wow! I’m not surprised, I would have been surprised with something short of this.
You are always an inspiration. Shine on.
Thanks Bro.
wow reg this write ups are great, any way am not supprised u’ve all ways had it in you. if u didnt start writing soon ur head would probably explode with the great inspirations constantly deposited in them by God. so keep it up its very helpful
Thanks Ayo, I hope you visit here often and lets hear your voice!
Papy Reggie you 2 much,Comin across sumone like you have brought about some GOOD changes in me thank God for that am always using you as a reference till tomorrow.Your site is good i pray we all tap into the drive for a better change in ourselves,enviroment,Africa and the world at large.Bless u bro
Thanks a lot Tobi…great knowing you as well.
Papa Reggie! your write ups always inspire me and they most times hit hard at what am passing through per time. I look forward to being the best I can be and your write ups is a building block to that. Keep the fire burning. May God continue to strengthen you.
Thanks so much Onome, and God bless you loads…
Hi Brother,
you blogs are very interesting and inspiring. Keep the good work going. I am gald i visited and will be frequenting the site.
See you soon.
Thanks Nana……;)
Just stumbled across u on facebook and thankfully u added me as your friend.I had always noticed and replied to your comments on cath’s page but don’t know how i found myself here but i’m elated to say the least.Ive not read anything save the introduction and i just cant wait to.I love your use of words and i admire your acknowledgment of your walk with God.
More grease to your elbow calabarboy!
Cant wait to delve into the main dish!
Thanks Jenny…glad you love what you read. Hope you will give your great counsel as well.
Men..i waz so impressed abt ur website. It loaded. Keep it up. Eti utom
Reggie, I thought the consumption of noodles reduced when we stepped out of Hebron. Here for the first time and I’m loving it already. Keep up the good work and the Lord will continue to strengthen you.
really i am not surprised with this beautiful piece having worked with reginald in p-1m. this is just a tip of the ice berg.kudos
I love ur blog!! everything: the contents, the desing… the gadgets.. everything!! u r really something!!! Blessings!! And c u around!
obong owo, i jst luv evrytin abt this site. keep it up.
Mr reggie,
nice write up…would really love a deep excursion to your mind..just to see how things work in there…just so you know..you constantly serve as my reality check whenever am becoming lackadaisical.
we tend to have similar interest on a lot of issues..just that your means of expression could be ferocious,,lol…thumps up reggie.